the black nathalie sancoeur.

  • Going where I am wanted.

    by Harriyanna Hook

    I used to live by the quote, “If they don't give you a seat at the table, bring a folding chair,” because I wanted to be included in things I wasn't a part of that clearly weren't interested in all I do. I wanted to prove that I belonged with them. The best way to network is to try to talk to those with interests similar to yours, right?

     

    Now, about that quote. With the experiences I dealt with within the last two years, I don't want to do that anymore. I am more so following the quote “go where you are wanted” moving forward.

    Posted in adulthood, adulting, anime, community, cosplay, drama, entrepreneur, fandom, life lessons, money, self help, small business, youtube

  • My irrelevant con parties opinion.

    by Harriyanna Hook
    I often tell people to take what I say with a grain of salt and form their own opinions. Con parties can be fun, but they shouldn’t dominate the entire weekend. By no means do I think it’s wrong for people to attend parties during a con. But as someone who’s been to some parties, I have only enjoyed a few of them. Con parties are overrated.
    Posted in adulthood, adulting, anime con, community, cosplay, drama, fan con, fandom, life lessons, money, parties, partying, social media, zine