the black nathalie sancoeur.

Jayla’s actions were unacceptable in numerous ways, and her behavior opened the door to a more significant issue we have with young entrepreneurs. There have been too many times I have seen a young woman who owns her own business making content where she is basically making fun of her clients, trash-talking clients, or talking down to people who can’t afford her prices. This behavior often happens with the lash tech, nail techs, and hairstylists; recently, it’s been happening with the bakers.

I want to be happy this holiday, but I am having a hard time doing so. I tried and tried and tried, but this day reminds me too much of my mom, and it probably always will because it’s what I have always known. On the morning of, before I would tell her Happy Valentine’s Day, I told her happy birthday.

I used to live by the quote, “If they don't give you a seat at the table, bring a folding chair,” because I wanted to be included in things I wasn't a part of that clearly weren't interested in all I do. I wanted to prove that I belonged with them. The best way to network is to try to talk to those with interests similar to yours, right?

Now, about that quote. With the experiences I dealt with within the last two years, I don't want to do that anymore. I am more so following the quote “go where you are wanted” moving forward.